March 28th is a very interesting day for our family. It’s a day chock full of memories, tears and most importantly, gratitude. It’s only been five years since the good Lord brought us through the most traumatic experience ever; watching our youngest daughter, Ava, almost die in our arms because of a Vitamin D deficiency.
Since that experience, we have always chosen to celebrate the day and not focus on the hurt of it all. Think about it, we watched our child go from happy to pain to death and then back again – all in six minutes. What’s not to celebrate?
This morning, as I got our daughter dressed for school, I thanked her for coming back to us. I make a point to say this to her every year because I know that it could have gone another way. And every year she always looks up at me and says the same thing, “You’re welcome Mommy. I love you!” It’s almost as if she remembers the day and knows she could have left this earth and stayed gone.
Over the five years we’ve celebrated by creating a program, Lovin’ Life to Save Lives, where we have brought in experts to teach CPR classes. We’ve organized toy drives for the children at Beaumont Children’s Hospital and Detroit Children’s Hospital, and we’ve also told our story to our family, friends, co-workers – basically anyone that will listen. A few years ago, we took Ava back to Beaumont and showed the nurses that she is well and very happy. Our goal is simple – to share our story so that no one else has to go through what we went through.
This year’s celebration will be a private one. Our menu is based on Ava’s choice and we will watch a movie, even though tonight is a school night. Hopefully her brother and sister like what she selects or there may be a brief fight. As we gather together in our living room, the same living room where it all happened, it will be wonderful to have our little family bundled up with lots of blankets and pillows. Tonight I won’t worry so much about the popcorn that will inevitably end up on the floor. I am going to spend this evening and every evening basking in gratitude, because God gave us another chance to be together….ALL of US.